After years of holding America a virtual hostage, old-fashioned radical feminism appears to be just about dead. But dont take my word for it. No less a feminist authority than Maureen Dowd, the New York Times columnist who has never met a Bushor Bush policythat shes actually liked, has all but written feminisms obituary in her book, Are Men Necessary? Dowd notes that feminism lasted for a nanosecond, but the backlash has lasted forty years. I would take issue with that statement. Feminism has been thwarting Americas growth and vitality for yearsbut, finally, a number of women are rejecting it for the silliness it is. Dowd writes, Its the season of prim, stay-in-the-background First Lady Laura Bush, not assertive two-for-the-price-of-one First Lady Hillary. Where would you even lodge a feminist protest these days? The signs of the decay of feminism can be seen far beyond Pennsylvania Avenue. In cities across the U.S., women are chucking the corporate world and embracing Barneys world instead. They have found fulfillment where their grandmothers did in the home, raising their children, offering love and support to their husbands. Many do not consider domestic work a drudgeryrather, they see it as a comforting alternative to the 24/7 career life. But what has brought about this seismic shift in American life? Feminism may, in fact, be responsible. Young women have seen the fallout from feminism and, as a result, they want no part of it. Public opinion polls generally show that younger women flinch at the thought of being called feminists. They may have been raised in the broken homes spawned by the nations divorce culture, and they dont want their own children to suffer the fate that they did. In essence, they suffered parental loss early in their lives because their mothers were rarely home long enough to be a nurturing force. Instead of tugging on their mothers apron strings, they were left to tug on the telephone cord that connected them to their working mothers offices. They felt a distance from their mothers that no amount of therapy could adequately address. In one noteworthy case, a poll commissioned by Faye Wattleton, former head of the pro-abortion Planned Parenthood, showed the generation gap which feminism caused. Wattleton asked women whether keeping abortion legal was a major concern, and they said no. Years of Planned Parenthoods preaching about the alleged necessity of abortion-on-demand have failed to convince the younger generation, who realize that sisters, brothers, cousins, friends, and potential mates are missing because they were aborted by their misguided mothers. Younger women tend not to see abortion as a rightbut rather as a profound wrong. South Dakotas recent decision to ban virtually all abortions demonstrates that radical feminisms clarion call to kill the unborn is no longer being heeded. The U.S. Supreme Courtwhich has its share of pro-feminist holdoversmay still claim that abortion should be the law of the land, but elected representatives in South Dakota have proven that it doesnt have to be. Recent national public opinion polls also show quite clearly that Americans support legal abortion in only rare circumstancesin fact, most people believe it should be banned in 99 percent of all cases. Feminist icon Molly Yard, who was marching for abortion well into her golden years, must be turning over in her grave. Young women simply dont relate to Eleanor Smeal, Gloria Steinem, and the other founding mothers of the modern feminist movement. They see such women as out-of-touch, angry, and unfulfilled. They admire women who can keep a household together under trying circumstances. They may have iPods and Blackberries, but they still believe in the value of hearth and home. And they definitely believe that men are necessary. Copyright 2006 by Nathan Tabor |
