How many times do you blame circumstances, people, yourself etc in everyday of your life? Enough is enough. Stop blaming now! Tohami, dont take me too hard, you might say. My friend, I care about you and want to help you build an extraordinary life. When I watch people blame everything around them I go crazy and want to take a loudspeaker and shout out loudly, Stop blaming now!! You are missing the first step. Blaming is the last thing to do. And I can say that blaming is the only thing you should never do!!! Tohami, life is tough and it is getting mad. There is really nothing I can do. If things go right then I can act differently, you might say. I know that. And I also know that you have done your best to overcome the challenges you face in your life each and everyday. You are totally exhausted and you are trying to change your life to the better from day one in your life. But nothing seems to work. You did all that but you missed doing the first step!!!! This single step controls all your efforts in life and gives it meaning and direction. This single step has the power to harmonize and align all your efforts to succeed and live a better life. Without this single step, which I consider the core of your life, all your efforts will go with the wind. Missing that step puts you in a situation exactly like someone who starts learning English but missed to learn the letter A. You continue learning and doing tremendous effort trying to understand what you read and trying to communicate effectively but nothing seems to work, because you cant decode this strange letter A which you know nothing about. Do you want to know what this missing step is?!! Ok I will tell you. Pay attention please You will never live a successful life unless you are 100% clear about what you want to do with your life. Here it is again: You will never live a successful life unless you are 100% clear about what you want to do with your life. For the third time: You will never live a successful life unless you are 100% clear about what you want to do with your life. Repeat it with yourself as much as you can. One thing I cant stand is to see people blaming everything their thinking can recognize and when you ask them about what they want, you hear the following answer: I dont know!!!!!!! What are you blaming then, if you dont know what you want in the first place? Life is hard, ok what do you want?
You have no money, ok what do you want?
You live in a bad environment, ok what do you want?
You dont have trusted friends, ok what do you want? I dont want to fail
I dont want to be an average person
I dont want to have bad friends
I dont want to have this kind of education No, no, no. I am not asking about what you dont want. I am asking about what you do want. What do you want? What are your dreams? What will you do if you know that you will never fail? How do you want to be remembered? What is your passion? You will get more of what you focus on most of the time. This is a great principle which we can talk about in another issue. But for the time being, I want you to know that you shouldnt blame external factors as long as you dont know what you want to do with your life. You have to be clear about your goals, dreams and purpose. I can ensure you that when you are clear about your life purpose, you will stop blaming immediately. Because when you discover your life purpose you will release your giant. This giant has an unstoppable power and confidence that makes blaming worthless to look at or even think about. My friend, take charge of your life. Know where you are going before starting your journey. If you started already, then stop immediately. Know what you want and be 100% clear about it, then change your direction and complete your journey with full confidence that you will have a bright future. Your success is in your own hands. There is nothing to blame. Discover your life purpose and release your giant. Sit now in a quite place and think about it. Why are you here? And what do you want to do? Live with passion!! |
