Telling your man that you love him is part of assuring him that he is special to you. But it is not enough to verbalize how you feel about your man. To keep your love fire burning, you must find creative and thoughtful ways to express your feelings.

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For the sake of brevity, I will offer you just 10 creative and thoughtful ways to let your man know he is your number one:

Do it with notes: Yes, handwritten notes. It may seem juvenile to some, but writing love notes for your man and placing them where he will find them will put a smile on his face and warm his heart. Place your note in the clothes you know he will wear to work the next day. If he takes lunch to work, pack it for him. You can write your love note on the paper napkin you place in his lunch bag. Imagine how surprised he will be, when he wants to use the paper napkin, and finds what you have written for him.

Wrap it in a gift: Use a colored pen or marker and write him a love letter or a thoughtful note on the inside of the gift wrapper. Just be sure to be around when he finds his surprise gift in your bedroom. Tell him to be careful unwrapping the gift, because you want to use the paper to make some interesting work of art, or whatever you think he will believe. When he unwraps the gift, you can bet he will give you a big hug and a kiss.

Put a message in a bottle: Find a clear bottle of wine or beer and write your message. Attach a string to your message using with a small safety pin and then place your message in a bottle. Put the bottle in your refrigerator (if you live together) or in his refrigerator, if you are dating. He will be pleasantly surprised when he finds your thoughts in a bottle.

Send an e-card: Go online to one of the e-card sites below and send him a card that expresses how you feel. They are fun and free to send. There are tons fun and innovative e-card websites you can visit.

Say it with flowers: Yes, flowers. Just as men love to give flowers, they love to receive them as well. The best way to send your guy flowers is to send it to his job. There is just something about receiving flowers in the presence his co-workers. Their impact is quadrupled when he receives them in the presence of his colleagues, as opposed to the relative privacy of your home.

To find out more about the many ways you can show your man that you love him, please visit: http://www.smartwomansguide.com.